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OK, with out sounding like a child hater here it goes.
Rachel and I are getting married this year. Almost 2 years ago when we got engaged we told Rachel's brothers that we do not want children at our wedding. Now at that time 2 of the 3 brothers had kids. Those kids will be 10, 5 and 3.
Since then 2 of the 3 brothers have had more kids which will all be 2 and 3 when the wedding happens.
The brothers are trying to guilt us into letting them bring the kids to the wedding.
1) They claim they cant get off work.
2) They claim they cant bother the wifes parents to watch the kids
3) 1 brother doesn't talk to the wifes family
4) 1 brother has 4 kids and 2 brothers have 2
Now the older brother with 2 kids, his wife is not making the out of state trip to stay home with the young baby, so we said since the 1 kid will be 11 years old, She can come in the wifes place...
The time off work I feel is BS.... ANY boss will let you off work to go to your sisters wedding.....
The parents not watching is BS because they have gone on vacations and other trips leaving the kids home..
PLUS who will say no to watching kids for the persons sisters wedding ??? seriously.....
Our reasons for not wanting the kids are: ( As well as not asking any of them to be my groomsman)
1) disruptions in the church
2) disruptions in the reception
3) the brothers dumping the kids on Rachel's mom (grandma) when she should be enjoying seeing her daughter get married
4)we are over the 100 person invite ( wedding package is for 100 )
5)worrying about kids getting hurt at the reception
6) the reception hall wants full price for any aged kid... ( $175.00 a person)
We are standing our ground and 2 of the 3 brothers refuse to get baby sitters or have some one watch the kids and said they will not come if we don't allow kids..
I don't want to allow 1 kid, then I have to let them all....
I personally could care less if rachels brothers are there or not....
also they only live 2.5 hours away, so they could drop the kids off with some one at 11 am,,,, come here and leave at 9pm and be back home at 11PM to pick the kids up...
IT is not even a whole day that they need to find some one to watch them...
Whatcha all think ???
are we being PITA, or what?
This is our day, we would like it the way we want it...
Thanks in advance
Todd & Rachel
Rachel and I are getting married this year. Almost 2 years ago when we got engaged we told Rachel's brothers that we do not want children at our wedding. Now at that time 2 of the 3 brothers had kids. Those kids will be 10, 5 and 3.
Since then 2 of the 3 brothers have had more kids which will all be 2 and 3 when the wedding happens.
The brothers are trying to guilt us into letting them bring the kids to the wedding.
1) They claim they cant get off work.
2) They claim they cant bother the wifes parents to watch the kids
3) 1 brother doesn't talk to the wifes family
4) 1 brother has 4 kids and 2 brothers have 2
Now the older brother with 2 kids, his wife is not making the out of state trip to stay home with the young baby, so we said since the 1 kid will be 11 years old, She can come in the wifes place...
The time off work I feel is BS.... ANY boss will let you off work to go to your sisters wedding.....
The parents not watching is BS because they have gone on vacations and other trips leaving the kids home..
PLUS who will say no to watching kids for the persons sisters wedding ??? seriously.....
Our reasons for not wanting the kids are: ( As well as not asking any of them to be my groomsman)
1) disruptions in the church
2) disruptions in the reception
3) the brothers dumping the kids on Rachel's mom (grandma) when she should be enjoying seeing her daughter get married
4)we are over the 100 person invite ( wedding package is for 100 )
5)worrying about kids getting hurt at the reception
6) the reception hall wants full price for any aged kid... ( $175.00 a person)
We are standing our ground and 2 of the 3 brothers refuse to get baby sitters or have some one watch the kids and said they will not come if we don't allow kids..
I don't want to allow 1 kid, then I have to let them all....
I personally could care less if rachels brothers are there or not....
also they only live 2.5 hours away, so they could drop the kids off with some one at 11 am,,,, come here and leave at 9pm and be back home at 11PM to pick the kids up...
IT is not even a whole day that they need to find some one to watch them...
Whatcha all think ???
are we being PITA, or what?
This is our day, we would like it the way we want it...
Thanks in advance
Todd & Rachel
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