Gonna miss inviting you to the next Seattle meet JD! It was great getting to meet you and the misses and the little ones !
As for Yuma over Oxnard?! I lived in both actually. Pros and cons.
Yuma aint as small as it used to be, but I have not been back there for quiet some time. Yes, you need to think about the little ones, it will get hot, dry or not! You will actually get to know your neighboors (more of that later), and the people you will meet will be friendly. You will want to be sure your AC is fully functional in the trac, but during the winter month (yes, month), you will only hit about 80's high and 50ishes low. I wouldn't want to live there only because of the heat, otherwise I would still be living there, or the vicinity.
Now, as for Oxnard, I used to live behind Port Hueneme in a nice little beach house. I loved going to the beach every freakin day after work, get some boarding and beer in before I headed home for more boredom and beer. I didn't get to know my neighboors until I moved, and it was to see how much I was selling the house for. I was introduced to hockey while living there, and although the weather is sweet, the surfing was great, and the women...wait, you married....
I enjoyed my stay in Oxnard, but wouldn't want to live there. The traffic in Yuma, actually all of AZ, tends to contain more civil and intelligent drivers. While Cali has more....I can't think of the word....Oh yea, CRAZY drivers.
Oxnard might be better on the littlest, but you will find Yuma more 'home'like.
Whatever you choose, it was great to meet you and the family. I will be sure to invite you, even if you can't come. Will save a pork chop for ya!