It was a problem with the manifolds warping and snapping the studs off, not really a problem with the gasket. I had both manifolds replaced and all studs replaced on mine, but it was all covered under warranty. Since I had it done I haven't had a problem yet, but it made it to about 60k before I ever had the problem to begin with. I am not familiar with the gaskets you mentioned, so I have no opinion of them, but I do agree with the statement about not using any kind of sealant on the mating surfaces.
All you did was plane the old manifolds, not replace them? Did everything still line up correctly even though they were warped? I wonder if it was the material the original manifolds were made of that caused them to warp and break the studs off?