As many of you may or may not know my girlfriend of 6 years was killed in December crossing the road. She had told me that she wanted to be cremated and have her ashes spread. I told her family this when she died and everyone was fine with it. We are waiting till the snow melts so we can spread them in the mountains. Now the issue. Her mother now wants to take some of the ashes and bury them in a graveyard in town here. This really bothers me because my girlfriend hated this town and hated graveyards, she would not have wanted this at all. Her sister and her brother both side with me. The dad doesn't seem to be picking a side. I have a meeting with them all this weekend. How do I handle this. Or am I in the wrong with my thinking of respecting the dead ones wishes and she would just worry about the living? Any thoughts or advice? Thank in advance.
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